Constellations

“That tickles.”

She moved, raised her head from my belly, and gave me a sleepy smile. She hates it when I wake her up at an ungodly hour, says that weekends are for sleeping in and extra cuddle time before eleven in the morning. I’ve never been an early riser myself; I haven’t been since a koala started sleeping next to me.

Ï can hear you thinking. It’s too loud,” she complained, her voice muffled as her left hand traveled the expanse of my belly, then down to my hip. I hold her close, closer to me, until I felt her nose nudge me, and her smile kissing my skin. She’s wearing her favorite kangaroo pajamas, not too shabby for an adult who still thinks that French fries are breakfast food. I trace the dots laid across her back made visible when she made herself comfortable on me; those constellations of peppered dots gently mapped on perfumed skin, with a scent that is uniquely hers; and it’s not the new fabric conditioner she insisted that we try or the trusted brand of detergent her family has used since she was in preschool, or so she says. It’s a scent I’d recognize anywhere, and I’d hate for her to lose it.

My lower back is starting to feel stiff from half sitting and lying down. I try to adjust the pillow so callously propped against the bed headboard, but the more I move my arm, the more she shuffles closer, clings to me tighter, as if one more inch between our bodies is illegal in 57 other countries. “Stop fidgeting, I’m trying to sleep.” I tried again, but it’s hard to move when half of someone’s body is lying on your lower body. Maneuvering is not an option, at least not when it looks like I could fall off the bed if I tug the pillow harder, and in any event that gravity tests my body mass and weight, this creature will feel the marble cold floor, and then it’s the doghouse for me. After the tugging and grunting, she surprises me and leverages on my shoulders to push me to lie down still, almost facing her sleepy state, disheveled hair and puffy eyed, mischievously biting her lower lip in hopes to weasel her way out of what she did.

“Why are you looking at me like that?”

It’s hard not to stare, not when those eyes merely reduced to slits at eight in the morning are dreamily gazing back at you with a glint of lighthearted breeze. What’s the word I’m looking for, I wonder, what’s the word for this, when she’s unguarded and wearing kangaroo pajamas, her right arm under her pillow, her left hand playing with mine, legs intertwined with mine, and we can’t tell which limb belongs to who, like we’re one giant pretzel, or a Mobius strip because her contour works well against the morning light chasing the shadows climbing the corners of the bedroom.

“How can I not?” I smiled at her, as she playfully tugs my earlobe, then shuts her eyes and smiles herself, breathes in and moves closer, closer, until I can feel her steady heartbeat against my own, and she adjusts her pillow and pulls me in, rakes her fingers on my scalp down to my nape, her right arm drawing me in ‘til my nose touches her neck. I smell her for all her worth; her scent engulfing my senses as I close my eyes and my right hand plays with her left hand. I breathe her in, deeper, deeper, as I press kisses to her neck, her jaw, her cheek, her eyes when she turns to look at me, the tip of her nose, her chin. I rub my nose against hers, content as I did, goosebumps growing on my arm as the blanket slightly slips off and the cold passes, making the hairs on my arms stand. She smiles at me, locks her fingers with mine, and I bring each fingertip, each knuckle to my lips; I turn over her palm and run my nose against it, my lips, and then she thumbs my lower lip and brings me in for a good morning kiss, the first of the how many she’ll give me today and not the last for the rest of our days. I grip her tighter, tighter, my arms around her waist and her right arm around my shoulder, her left hand drawing patterns on my upper right arm, as we both sink between the sheets now almost mantel on the floor, and I find my place on the crook of her neck, my favorite sleeping place, as I breathe her scent in, my breath tickling her in comfort, and we both give in to the slow daze of the weekend, and the burden of staying in bed for two more hours. Home, I say to myself as I feel the rhythmic rise and fall of her rib, the word I’m looking for is home.

 

Dear Jack.

I rode upon your asphalt roads that led

To the southest rain

And from thereon I hitched a ride going

Back to the northern trail.

Some nights I wandered with slow tunes on my head

Where the bed’s a constant reminder of

Time lost last Christmas year.

I figured I should hear about your lowly travels instead.

Midnights are often fucked, if I do say so myself

Although that is being crass – does jazz turn

Beatniks into potheads?

I heard about smoking. Goddamit, car trips make me vomit.

It’s the sorcery of the midnight wail that leaves even the sun on its toes

It’s the acid trip to heaven and earth, and everything else remains afloat.

I could kiss the ground for falling while I’m falling along with it

I could dip my tongue on shores amidst the sunburn and the acid.

The wind blew down the pile of every story I thought I needed.

I wrote a story once about a stork that turned into an owl

Except ducklings, I was told, do not grow into graceful swans

And horses and pigs do not mate, or so they say

Everything is wrong; nothing ever made sense

My hands are foreign parts attached to limbs almost always dead.

I thought now meant today, and today is better celebrated in bed. 

Dear Marco (and everything I want to tell you for your birthday)

My favorite West End musical is The Phantom of the Opera. I first saw it as a silent film on one of my film classes, and while the original version was of the horror genre (and therefore hardly a musical), I loved it so much that I saw all the other versions that followed. Comparison aside and despite the different portrayals, the story remained the same: there’s a guy who fell for a girl whose pipes could shatter church windows, and they pledged their commitment to one another through a duet. The stage version even stayed faithful to the film version – why ruin a winning formula? Except maybe throw in a couple of sopranos and baritones, dress them in Belle Epoque grandeur, signal the curtains to drop after the first act, and maybe hope that the whole thing does not rival an average vaudeville performance. But behind the whole bravado remains the skeleton plot: a guy met a girl and they fell inlove.

Almost everyone I know who had seen either the musical or the subsequent film versions swooned when Raoul and Christine made haste for the rooftops to proclaim their love for each other; I, on the other hand, was anxious to see if Dick Van Dyke would jump out of the shadows, covered in soot. And when Raoul and Christine held hands, stared in each others’ eyes and began singing All I Ask of You, I imagined a thousand and one Barbra Streisands belting the same song. Some might have sung along, love stricken and emotional about seeing handsome, perfect Raoul promise to protect the dainty Christine Dae’s heart for as long as he shall live, but not me, no. Somewhere between the opening scene, the auction at the Grand Opera House and the music box, I had lost count of how many sobs I had kept to myself for dear Phantom.

We live in a world where the Raouls find the Christines and they all give an arm up or a limb for a heart wrenching duet. There was a time when I’m quite certain you thought that Neverland was the dream, and I, your Wendy. I don’t disagree; in fact, I rather admire your optimism. It’s just that, everytime I look back at how it all began, whenever I’d retrace my steps to that very first instance we clapped eyes on each other, I always get goosebumps from this lingering feeling that at the time, we both knew we were grown ups trapped in compact travel body sizes. I’ve always felt that we’re both older than we seemed, in our hearts and minds. For some inexplicable reason, we gravitated towards each other, like the sky and earth (debatable who is which). I felt a pull towards you, and maybe because we spoke the same language and used the same method to do so, I didn’t resist at all, even if I so detested Raoul.

See, dueting with someone is never the plan. It’s why everytime anyone ever tries to assure me, let alone expect me to be a bone out of Christine’s make and model, I am quick to surround myself with walls. Not every girl is a damsel in distress. I’m a lady, dammit. I can handle a solo. And if I am to share DNA with Christine Dae and bunk up with someone, I’d rather u-haul with Phantom, thank you very much. A pretty boy, I’ve learned, is always followed with trouble and headaches; a pretty girl, even worse. The boys I have met and hated thereafter all wanted to tame me. The girls who followed envied my freedom. The boys could not accept that because of necessity, I had to grow a pair. The girls, interestingly, wanted lessons on how to grow a pair. The boys smiled, offered their hands for me to hold, and walked away when I refused. The girls smiled, dug their nails and whined, and scarred me for life before they left. It’s an endless encounter with the Raouls and the Christines, and it’s a puzzle what they want from the phantomed me. I’m nothing special. I neither blend in or stand out because I’d much rather stay away from people. I mind my own business and work my ass like it’s cushioned to take a fall. I don’t have much, and what I have I cannot sell or pawn even if it would save my life. My most treasured possession are my books, and if one day you cannot seem to find me, trust that I am buried in piles and piles of pages in black and white. I blabber incessantly about history and AM radio drama because of nostalgia, and no one hardly finds that appealing. Yet, for some reason, the Raouls and the Christines waltz in and out of my life, one hand thrust forward when they do, and two hands in surrender when it’s time to leave.

You always revert to the time we met, not the exact moment, but the succeeding days and years after, when nights were spent sitting across each other, doing our “business review”. I don’t blame you. You may have thought that the meat of how we began as opposing musicals rested on the days we were arguing about something implicitly banal, and we were not really about who’s right and wrong. It’s just who we are, and it may have taken me years to get that, finally, but it’s just how we are. That’s how we show love to each other, going back and forth until one of us changes the topic or concedes, not for the sake of agreeing to disagree, but because we are bigger than everything else laid out in front of us. Bigger than the small disagreements, the cross pacific conversations where replies are always a day or two late, or the random doubt if we’re both still here. Because I know you so well, maybe not as much as you know me – and I guess I have to live with that – I know that it crosses your mind whenever you snag a minute to think, you get that sinking feeling, that fear, that here is a thing of the past and it’s meant to stay there.

I wish I could assure you that it isn’t, that you’re overthinking and overtly scared of something that isn’t ever going to happen. But that’s like saying Phantom doesn’t have scars. You probably thought that this whole thing is meant to console you, being it’s your birthday and your how many seas away from home. It isn’t. We don’t do consolations or second prizes. You and I have always been about going big or going home, and we’ll bleed dry before they take our sorry asses home. When we were younger we used to say to each other, I’m always here for you. That meant a great deal then, and translated to how many derivatives. I’ll never leave. I’m just a phone call away. Text me anytime and I’ll reply. I’ll always have time. We tested each of those and flunked miserably. We both left. There were times when we didn’t pick up. Some messages were unanswered. We both got busy. Adulting is hard. Adulting tested the here. There were days when I’d ask if I could get a do-over, if here meant physically, or did it mean emotionally? I was quite certain that it’s the thought that counts, but when you’re stuck in a rut and you have no one to turn to, does that same thought help at all?

The last time we talked, you asked what’s different about me. What ‘s changed, you said. And I may have said something about not waiting anymore, for anything or anyone. A grand testament to my impatience for all things wonderful, and you were quick to say that some things take time. I asked you the same thing, and you said that you feel less brave, that you’re no longer capable of taking risks, and that you hate it when things are out of control. I must admit that wasn’t what I was expecting from you, and in an anticlimactic way, I understood what you meant. We wisen as we age but we also become cautious. We’ve seen horrors paired with amazing things. We’ve had our knees skinned and our hearts dismantled and taped up, yours probably worse than mine. And yet somehow, you still managed to muster enough love to call me out for how I turned out to be after six years. I know you, you said, I know your heart and how committed you could get, you used to have a pair, what happened to you. I didn’t have answers then, so I said the only thing that I’ve always known to be true: I can’t do this without you.

What did you wish for when you blew your candles in August? I’m interested to know. I know there are lots you still want to do, places to see and people to meet. I know you don’t dream of holding the fort there forever. How many items are left on the bucket list? It’s like everytime we talk or chance upon each other on Messenger, I never get to ask you these questions. You have a way of starting a conversation that leaves me in fits of laughter. How come it never works the same way with people we like? How the hell are we so good with telling each other how it is and still remain socially awkward when meeting others? How did we get used to picking each other up when shit hits the fan but could barely respond when those we love corner us into submission? How is it that those who scarred us and took from us the most became the reason why we had forgone the Raouls and the Christines, and settled for stolen glances and wishful thinking? How is it that you feel less brave but remain so strong for me and Norgs? Where does that strength come from? How do you manage to draw that out even when you can’t seem to brave your own days, just to make sure that there’s enough for Norgs and I? Because I’ve seen you do it several times, when you’d travel from Batangas to Manila after a 10 hour shift to be with Norgs and I just because we’re flying off the handle. And you’d take us out for coffee, stay overnight and catch the earliest trip back home without so much as a minute’s worth of nap because you have work in the morning. Tell me how do you it. Maybe if I figure that out, how to channel rage into strength, I wouldn’t demand for your attention so much. And you won’t have to check up on me periodically.

Unlike Christine, I do take cognizance of when I may have crossed the line. I have that much sense of self awareness to ask myself every so often if I take too much from you, if I demand more than you can hand over; and it’s never a question of will for you, it’s never if you’re willing or not. I dreadfully try to keep it an impossibility, that if and when I have sucked you dry, you’d still be gracious enough to think that if it was the other way around, I would do the same thing. One poignant lesson I have learned the hard way – and I remember telling a friend the same thing on her birthday – is that relationships have good and bad days, glowing and darker shades. The good highlights the bad parts and should never overshadow anything. The good bits should never make you forget about the horrible ones, because they remind you how the good came to be. I could only hope that by being friends with me, by planning to buy a more sturdy and expensive rocking chair than mine for future use, that you have grown to ignore the bad pieces of myself, and have accepted that the broken trampled glassy ones of my heart are forever lost, so you can stop glueing me back together while you’re at it. I could enumerate all the unpleasantries I have – the row of bad bones from my neck down to my tailbone, the evil thoughts rivaling that of a sociopath inhabiting my head, the uneasiness on my hands when I see someone I think resembles someone I knew too well, or even the fact that I always, always, find someone you deem is never worthy of even a period or comma – and they are more than enough reason for you to demand a do-over. I wouldn’t and couldn’t blame you if at one point you thought you were getting more than you bargained for; believe me, I would think of that too often, and more so after every conversation. Something’s gotta give. That’s how I learned to accept that sometimes you come and go as you please. It used to bother me – and Norgs knows about this – because we couldn’t keep up with you. I know you don’t deliberately do it, and I do blame deep seeded trauma of being left behind, but I guess it’s one of those things you do for you. God knows despite the timezone difference, Norgs and I still drive you insane.

Marco, I know you already blew your candles and had your cake. I know this is almost 3 months’ late, but a promise is a promise. And between Neverland creatures, that’s as serious and binding as Peter Pan himself. Why I always get to play Wendy in your version, I could only guess. It couldn’t be the absence of female characters for sure. I could always be Tiger Lily, granted that I don’t look as good as Rooney Mara. I’m absolutely, positively certain that I cannot be Tinker Bell although I do make that much noise. And I’m absolutely, even more positively certain that I am nothing like Wendy – yes, I love to tell stories but I am a horrible, subdued mess. I could never last in the forest for too long, 4 hours tops, or wherever there is no cellphone reception. I’m afraid of heights, I have no talent in domesticity or sewing, and when I was a little girl I couldn’t wait to grow up. Sometimes your choices baffle me and God knows who else but, really? Wendy? What, I couldn’t be Lisbeth Salander or any other kickass woman in Literature? I mean, I appreciate the gesture and how you probably see me as opined in a posh manner but, really? Wendy?

Do you remember that scene in The Phantom of the Opera, when Christine looked at Phantom for the last time aboard that boat with Raoul, and Phantom broke down in tears, escaped the cave through the life size mirror, and he left his monkey music box behind? And then the scene cut away to the present when Raoul is already withering himself, bids for the music box from the auction and takes it to Christine’s grave, only to find a single long stem red rose with a ribbon? Phantom had always been a step ahead of Raoul, in this lifetime and the next. And she didn’t have to marry Phantom or pledge her undying love in a duet. If you ask fans of the musical or the film version what they thought of it, I’m a hundred percent sure that while they can dissect the plot to pieces and interpret it in a hundred and one different ways, they will always zero in to Raoul and Christine singing All I Ask Of You. They will revert to that moment when Raoul held Christine’s hands, and Christine sang her love for Raoul for the rest of Paris to hear. They will always swoon a little more, a lot harder, whenever that scene when Raoul rescued Christine from Phantom comes to mind. They would not think of how damaged Phantom was, how generous he was and how he managed to do so despite being robbed of a chance to experience it himself. They would think of him as that name in the title, the scarred monster whose face resembled a skull, who terrified performers at the Grand Opera, the bratty ghoul who would cause accidents when he would not get his way. They would not remember that his name is Eric and that the only possession he ever had, he so willingly and graciously gave to the audience of the Grand Opera. They would so callously oversee that what made him come alive in spite of the abuse he suffered all throughout his life, he gifted to a beautiful girl, and all he wanted was for her to look past the scars and the cloak. She sang to Raoul with all the love in the world, pledged her undying commitment with the most pristine, melodious and brave voice that the Phantom gave her. And for all accounts and purposes, he gave her strength and a voice.

Thank you for the barrage of roses disguised as conversations. For the monkey music box in the context of late night coffee dates. For wearing your heart on your sleeve so I wouldn’t feel alone doing it. For always being on my side despite the doubt of here. For keeping tabs on me even if you think I’m unaware that you do. For letting me love people knowing that I love you the most. For standing guard because of the endless encounters and subsequent failures with the Raouls and the Christines in this life. For nursing my heart whenever it gets beaten.

Thank you, Phantom, for giving me a voice I could hear when I couldn’t hear yours to comfort me, in this lifetime and the next. Happy Birthday, old fool. I love you dearly.

 

 

 

Peyups (UPLB) Life

Mga gabay: Pagkatapos sagutan ang mga katanungan, ikaw ay pumili ng 20 mong kaibigan mula sa iyong listahan para sila naman ang sumagot.

1. ANONG STUDENT NUMBER MO?
00 – 60080. I remember standing in line during ID picture taking and forgot my envelope back at the Registrar’s Office, so I went back and stood at the end of the line because I forgot my place. Good thing I did, because I ended up with the easiest student number.

2. NAKAPASA KA BA OR WAITLISTED?
I passed 🙂

3. PAANO MO NALAMAN ANG ENTRANCE EXAM RESULT?
Thru a cousin and then by mail a week later

4. ANO ANG FIRST CHOICE MO NA COURSE?
BS Economics

5. SECOND CHOICe Mo?
BS Development Communication

6. ANO COURSE NATAPOS MO?
same as # 5

7. NAG-SHIFT KA BA?
Hindi. Pinandigan ko 🙂

8. CHINITO/CHINITA KA BA?
I could pass for one when I squint reaaaally hard.

9. NAKAPAG-DORM KA BA?
I didn’t stay sa dorms. Most of my Mom’s family live in Los Banos so I stayed with my aunt, her kids and grandparents.

10. NAKA UNO KA BA?
Oo naman 🙂

11. NAGKA-3?
Proud ako sa 3 ko 🙂 pinaghirapan ko yun!

12. LAGI KA BANG PUMAPASOK SA KLASE?
I maximize the allowed absences. May mga prof kasi na hindi naman masipag magcheck ng attendance, lalo na pag lecture class (case in point: ComSci 1)

13. MAY SCHOLARSHIP KA BA?
Pucha bracket 9 nga ako!

14. ILANG UNITS NA ANG NAIPASA MO?
Naipasa ko naman lahat, meron lang akong ibang units na pinaghirapan ipasa LOL

15. NANGARAP KA BANG MAGING CUM LAUDE?
never. Kasi you will still stand and endure the graduation rites na sobrang init at tagal kasi madaming colleges and maraming students, CAS pa lang inip ka na.

16. KELAN KA NAGTAPOS?
awa ni Lord, natapos rin 🙂

17. FAVE PROF
Halos lahat naman naging fave prof ko, maliban sa mga Math teachers 🙂 I liked my teachers on GE units because I really learned a lot as in hindi sayang ang tuition. I also liked my DevCom teachers kasi unorthodox sila magturo.

18. WORST TEACHER:
Teachers ko sa Math kasi hindi ko naman talaga sila maintindihan. At yung teacher ko sa ComSci 1 lecture na nakalimutan ko na ang name pero institution na yun dun.

19. FAVE SUBJECT/s:
DevC 140, DevC 80 & 70,  Hist 1 & 2, Philo 1, Social Psych, SocSci 2, Hum 1 & 2, all my writing classes, PolSci 10, Gender Issues, Debate, Urban Psych, all my Economics classes

20. WORST SUBJECT/s:
Math 11, ComSci 1, Bio 1

21. FAVE BUILDING/s:
Old Hum, DevCom, Admin, BioSci kasi maraming chairs, DL Umali kasi madaling tumambay dun, Lib kasi malamig

22. PABORITONG KAINAN:
Sizzler’s, Indio’s, Bean Hub, McDo, Burger King, Anker’s, Salad Country, Chowking

23. NONG ESTUDYANTE KA PA MAGKANO BA ANG BINABAYAD MO SA JEEP?
7 pesos

24. LAGI KA BA SA LIBRARY?
Kahit sino naman eventually pupunta dun sa dami ng reports na kailangan gawin. Naging bestie ko ang book ni Campbell ng isang sem. Tapos malamig and malalaki ang chairs at masarap matulog.

25. NAGPUNTA KA BA SA CLINIC NUN?
Una sa lahat ang tawag sa infirmary namin is Infirmatay. Pangalawa, to answer your question – oo. Kasi nagkaron ako ng bacterial infection at kailangan ko ng med cert para sa laboratory class ko sa Bio. And nung enrollment nung 1st year kailangan ko mag PE so mandatory talaga.

26. MAY CRUSH KA BA SA CAMPUS?
Meron, at isa isa ko silang pinanood na magkaron ng gf (sniff!)

27. ANU-ANO ANG MGA NAGING PE MO?
Basic PE nung 1st sem at puro football na ang sumunod

28. KAMUSTA NAMAN ANG BLOCK NYO?
Hindi ko na alam kung nasan ang iba. We took different majors pero we still had elective classes together.

29. MEMORIZE MO BA ANG ALMA MATER SONG?
Hindi!

30. MEMBER KA BA NG VARSITY TEAM?
Oo

31. NAKA-PERFECT KA NA BA NG EXAM?
Hindi pa pero I got the highest score several times sa ibang exams.

32. DITO KA BA NATUTONG UMINOM NG BEER?
Beer and others

Dagdagan natin!!!
33. Tumira ka ba sa whitehouse?
Hindi but I knew some people who did.

34. Nagka boyfriend/girlfriend ka ba sa campus?
Oo 🙂

35.Nakatapak kba sa “fertility tree?”?
Hindi lang apak. Uminom, nanghuli ng mga walang pang motel, tumambay, naghintay kung may lalabas na multo.

36. Ano paborito mong meryenda sa UP?
siomai sa Papu’s, manggang hilaw sa tapat ng MSI, Doner, turon, at kung anong pwedeng bilhin sa tindahan ni Mang Pogs

37. Anung bar ka mdalas uminom?
IC’s taas at baba

Goodbye, Goodbye (Come Back), Goodbye

when eve breaks
and the heavens cry
and Helios takes flight
and shadows sleep.
when, but for one,
one midday affair
comes sprinting,
ride like the wind.

I stare
like no one’s watching.
I stare.

and all the planets
align
in one perfect unison.
all that glitters pose as gold
but the golden
remain hidden.
sweet, sweet Silence
lull me to sleep.
beside you,
I sink deep.

2nd Serving

This cup of joe
never lies.
Sip,
as it drowns
my mouth.
Wash me whole
but filled with holes
punctured previously;
Coffee flows
freely.
My second cup,
the third drop
tastes familiar
and stale.
Three-fourths sugar
but bitter,
made sour by spoon.
Dangling,
stirring –
I shall finish my cup
soon.
And what have I learned?
It takes a little bit
of German
and sweet-sounding French
to blend the Irish,
Mexicans;
when I stare,
I leave a welt.
I leave a welt.
I do it so well.
I leave a mark;
it creeps up your neck.
It strangles
then spits venom
on your face.
It will wipe,
it shall lick the scars
left by Grace.
Your saving grace –
amazing grace –
coined by days, years
6 years,
perhaps,
5.
Count to 7,
down to 8, 9, 10 –
the 11th,
you die.
And my cup,
it overflows.
It overflowed,
caffeine-sweet.
The bitter had gone sour;
the sweet,
sweetened by spit.

It’s Fine, I Was Awake (on a good day)

On a good day, the Sun shines on you.
You are in a Disney movie, stretching your arms,
As the first light of day hits your toes.
And all the sores of the previous nights,
Reduced as mere soap suds down the drain.
Last night’s shower is a preview of the first one today, and coffee smells like the freshest brew straight from a pre-packed foil. Nothing beats the thrill of a morning cup.
Life is a sitcom, waiting for the supporting characters to show up and raid your ref, and then! The punchline.
You plan your day.
You invite a good day.
You laugh out loud.
On your best day, you lounge.
You drink your cup and eat breakfast straight from the pan, and the pan loves you for calling the kettle black.
You write your notes on some discarded tissue previously used to wipe off dust.
You are free versing with the staunchest disregard for tones and rules of archaic poetry; sometimes, disavowing a semblance of order.
Because the best is you.
It is now.
And you are but a small supporting character,
Patiently waiting for the chime of the next five punchlines.

What I Learned From Disastrous Breakups (The D-A-B-D-A Process)

  1. You have to binge on ice cream before that overly dramatic makeover. Like it’s an absolute must.
  2. You’d most likely end up buying a pet. If you’re the melodramatic type and your emotions are just off the Richter scale, you’ll get a cat. If you somehow ended up with a bitter taste in your mouth for that one guy, you’ll get a dog.
  3. Getting drunk will happen even if you’re not a drinker.
  4. You may not have a breakup playlist but trust me, you’ll end up making one (and you’d most likely make those mixes in the middle of the night until the wee hours of the morning, when everyone else is asleep so you could cry your eyes out.)
  5. Friends are on your speed dial.
  6. You will listen to Adele, even if you’re not a fan. Or Sam Smith for some. Point is, you’ll listen to Adele. If you’re the rock emo, you’ll belt out Dashboard Confessional songs.
  7. Savings gonna go buh bye because because … hello retail therapy!
  8. New things and experiences top your to-do list.
  9. Crying is okay until it isn’t anymore. Which could take up to how many years.
  10. … which would stop when you find someone else to make googly eyes again with.
  11. … which would only happen after that makeover.